青春渐行渐远,遗忘如影随形 | 三个一 | 月旦评

2년 전

名固无宜,
约之以命,
约定俗成谓之宜,
异于约谓之不宜。
--《荀子·正名》

无意间翻出高中同学们的照片,那么多呼之欲出的名字,终究还是没能叫的上来。

那些熟悉的面孔,我清清楚楚的知道他们都是我经历过,也经历过我的人。他们的形象鲜明的印在我的脑海,可为什么,在记忆中没有搜索到与他们对应的称号呢?

名字这个东西,不过是一个代号而已,它本身并没有任何意义,是鲜活的作为人的生命个体赋予了名字意义。我们记忆某个人的名字,是为了与他的某种特征或事迹的记忆相对应,如果没有名字背后的生命,也就失去了名字的意义。

人之所谓天下闻名,或者臭名昭著,真的是“名”么?其实是某个生命个体吧,只不过代号这个东西,用起来更方便。说到底,名字就是一个代号,没有绝对的对应,只要乐意,甚至可以随便取,但是为了整个人类世界这个有着大量同类产品即人类的地方不至于陷入产品编号混乱的局面,所以才有了命名的规则。

青春渐行渐远,遗忘如影随形。

很多人和事物开始变得淡漠,很多依然会在将来变得淡漠的人事物以新鲜的姿态走入我们的世界,生生灭灭,永不停息,直到我们西去。

这是一个宿命般的轮回,我们注定要不断地忘记,又不断地记忆,然后再不断地忘记。

曾经讨厌的情境现在开始慢慢适应;曾经视之为珍宝的东西现在视之如粪土;曾经万般痛恨的东西现在开始慢慢地不再顾及;曾经以为缺了就没法活的东西,现在遗失了,自己仍好好地活着。

伴随着这些的,永远少不了遗忘。因为遗忘,我们或许变得麻木;因为遗忘,我们可能开始冷漠;因为遗忘,我们丢失很多美丽。

但,因为遗忘,我们变得更有勇气;因为遗忘,我们摆脱了很多羁绊;因为遗忘,我们找回了一些自信。

有时候,遗忘是一种背叛,有时候,遗忘是一种救赎。

如果遗忘我可以救赎你们,那么请遗忘我。

如果遗忘你们背叛了你们,那么请原谅我。

雨果说,生命是一个不断遗忘的过程,我们在身后留下一连串的悲哀。

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@woolfe19861008, 绝对的码字达人!

让单身狗孤独而死的节貌似快到了,@cn-cutie.pie 可可 我给你准备了惊喜哟!

  ·  2년 전

你上哪去了,我想死你了!!

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回来了,回来了哈~前一阵子工作比较忙,现在稍微放松点了,继续跟着一姐哈~

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快来好声音,想念你性感的声音!

终于回来了,还以为你放弃斯丁密了 T_T

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没放弃呢,兄弟,主要是之前事情比较多,现在基本快回到之前的状态了哈~

写得不错,看得出用心了。

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