#5 Common Pieces Of Dating Advice That Can Be Toxic

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#5 Common Pieces Of Dating Advice That Can Be Toxic

1. Be Extra Impressive On The First Date 

2. Remember That Opposites Attract

3. Always Play Hard To Get

 This is another piece of toxic dating advice that well-meaning friends dole out on the regular. But it definitely isn't helpful.As Schwartz says, many people who play hard to get find themselves losing confidence as the game goes on. Not to mention, this strategy has a tendency to backfire, as many people quickly lose interest when they don't think someone cares.What you should do instead, Schwartz says, "is show your interest and see what response you get." If you're both feelin' it, let each other know and go from there.

4. You Teach People How To Treat You

  Have you ever heard the old saying, "You teach people how to treat you"? This implies that you need to, well, teach someone how to be nice to you, polite, and so on by not allowing them to get away with rudeness and disrespect.But in reality, with the right partner, experts say you shouldn't have to "teach" them anything. "If you have to teach someone to be kind, considerate, loving, and respectful towards you then you're with the wrong person," dating expert Kevin Darnétells Bustle. "Life is too short to be trying to change water into wine. The goal is to find someone who already is the kind of person you want to be with."

5. Don't Have Sex On The First Date


We've all been told that it's important to avoid having sex on the first date. Doing so, as many people say, not only ruins your date's opinion of you, but also ruins your chances of ever seeing them again.And yet, nothing could be further from the truth. "No one should have sex unless they want to," Darné says. "Playing a calendar game with sex has never insured a lasting relationship." So if you want to have a good time, and it feels right, go for it.Also, bear in mind that if this person was going to be negatively impacted by hooking up on the first date, they weren't someone you likely wanted to be with anyway."Having sex [...] doesn't convert nice [people] into [...] jerks," Darné says. "Odds are they were jerks to begin with [...] The only agenda for having sex in a new relationship is to determine chemistry [...] If you don't feel like having sex then don't. Let it be your choice."

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