When you start to grow up, you have your own job, more relationships, much more worries in life, the time you spend for her lesser, the moment you talk to her shorter and the days you come back to visit her ocasionally.
You are sad, she feels sad but never forget to encourage you.
You get lost in the thing you do and feel disappointed, she feels even more heart-breaking but never forget to cherish your hopes. "Please dont give up, baby!" is what she said to you.
Everyday she wants to know what I am doing. What I ate. What kind of clothes I am wearing. How my job is going on. How about my love. Exactly, everything about me. At least 4 phone calls per day if not she will be very worried. However, personally instead of being happy I feel a bit annoyed with, I tried to persuade her that “Mommy, we are adults, we can take care of ourselves and have our choices in life. For the time being, you can relax and enjoy your hobbies. We will be allright, for sure.” You dont know that after listening to those sentences, she bursts into tears because she thought we do not need her anymore. This breaks her heart.
Have you ever fought with your lover?
Have you ever been stressful with your friends?
Have you ever gotten in trouble with your colleagues?
And have you ever had arguments with your mom?
How about your solutions?
Most of us try to conserve those above relationships because we think they are important to us. If we try to make it more complicated, we will lose a boyfriend, a bestfriend or a colleague. However, nobody realizes that when we have an argument with our mom, we tend to fight with our mom over your problem ‘cause we think we are correct, we are mature enough to give our own ideas. There is one thing you dont understand that mom accepts to be a loser not because of being wrong. Because her love is extremely big.
Nhưng chưa bao giờ hiểu nỗi buồn Mẹ giấu
Giọt nước mắt con có mấy người hiểu thấu
Mà ngay cả lúc con cười Mẹ cũng biết con đau?"
Người với người đối với nhau bằng hơn- thua, được- mất
Nhưng chỉ có tình thương Mẹ dành cho con là thật
Và duy nhất trên đời đủ nhẫn nại, bao dung..."