Doth not behave itself unseemly, seeketh not her own, is not easily provoked, thinketh no evil.- 1 Corinthians 13:5 [KJV]
Looking at what Revelation 3:20 says "Behold, I stand at the door, and knock: if any man hear my voice, and open the door, I will come in to him, and will sup with him, and he with me."
I could see how love is expected to behave. God is our creator, hence has the power & dominion over everything but he had never forced himself on us.
Love is meant to flow freely without pressure. I have heard how people unleash dangerous substances on people who refused to reciprocate their love.
My dear, if all she or he cares about is just his or her own wellbeing...if he's pressuring you to satisfy his lustful desire; it's not love. If God couldn't force his undiluted love on us, let nobody force you into any relationship.
I encourage you to check through that love relationship...If you're chocking, please seek help.
Don't force your feelings on people, love is not do or die.- SUJ