改变

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几乎每个人年轻的时候都想改变世界,小伙子想着

男儿何不带吴钩,收取关山五十州。

大姑娘想

绝世而独立,一顾倾城再顾倾国。

都想把自己活成一个传奇,让世界因为自己而不同。这真的是初生牛犊不怕虎,没有领教过生活的残酷,天地的不仁。本来想按照自己的想法去生活,结果发现自己只能按照现有的生活去想。


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大概每个人在成长的过程中都曾经听到过梦想破碎的声音,也只有听过这种响声,才算得上成熟。正如王小波所说:

后来我才知道,生活就是个缓慢受锤的过程,人一天天老下去,奢望也一天天消逝,最后变得像挨了锤的牛一样,可是我过二十一岁生日时没有预见到这一点,我觉得自己会永远生猛下去,什么也锤不了我。

能够保持当初生猛状态的成年人不多了,大部分都向现实妥协,低下了原来高昂的头颅。荷尔蒙分泌似乎会突然中断,越来越像那被锤骟了的老牛。

到最后才会发现,别老想着什么改变世界了,能不被世界改变,就已经很难得,接近圆满了。

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